Twenty-one years ago I met you on Love@AOL. Twenty years ago I met you in person, at a bookstore. I was over an hour late. You were kind. We got along. I was lucky. Really really lucky.

We have watched each other grow up. We have been a witness to the other’s life. You helped me bury a father and a dog. Marry a daughter. Publish a book. You went with me to oceans and mountains. You were my best friend. You have been my inspiration. You taught me to love.

I love you. Thank you for being the best of husbands.